Are you ready to "stop parenting and start coaching" your teen athlete or performer?!
-Create powerful perspective shifts and discover clarity that fuels action.
-Transform your relationship and forge a deep connection with your teen.
-Become the trusted parent/coach, your talented teen needs you to be!
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Because great parenting isn’t about control — it’s about clarity, connection, and lifting your teen to their highest potential.
Explore our powerful Thinking Tools, dive into The Scoreboard Course, tune into our Podcast, and discover the impact of
Certified High Performance Coaching TM — all designed to help you lead with purpose and skill.
Essential High Performance Tools
Our custom, practical tools
challenge your thinking & create
powerful perspective shifts.
Each tool empowers you to clear the unique hurdles associated with parenting your teen athlete or performer!
And we've created a bundle you can't resist!
The Scoreboard Course
Redefine success and transform your relationship with your teen in our foundational course: The Scoreboard Course! A simple, powerful, and affordable way to help your teen thrive—on and off the field or stage.
Designed for busy parents, this course is affordable, short, and powerful—so you can make a big impact in less time.
And, more transformative courses for you to elevate your game are in the works!
The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast
We tackle the hard stuff. We answer your burning questions--the relevant ones moms and dads of teen athletes & performers like you are asking!
Listen in to learn why "coaching"
beats "parenting" every time.
Informative & edutaining, our commuter-friendly episodes for high achieving, busy moms and dads drop every Monday!
Certified High Performance CoachingTM
Are you ready to stretch your horizons &
take the next step in your development as a person & a parent? Let's go!
Armed with a combined 50+ years of coaching experience & the world's best high performance coaching framework, Nate & Steve consider it a both a
calling & a blessing to coach parent(s) & families to their next level.
What High Performing Parents are saying about us...
"I love everything about this amazing coaching journey. The new insights, the deep learning--I can confidently say I love ALL THE THINGS!"
-J. Bateman
"Coach--we just finished the first quarter (in The Scoreboard Course). Thank you! This is really making Amy and I think."
-R. Walker
FAQs
You have questions! We (maybe, possibly, and probably) have answers!
And if your question or answer is not found below,
please send us your questions and connect with us at createtransformbecome.com.
The name of your podcast suggests you believe I should "stop parenting & start coaching" my teen athlete or performer. What does that actually mean?
The short answer? It means that we become more curious rather than judgmental or coercive. We "coach" rather than consult.
Teens are no longer young children who we simply tell what to do. Thriving parent/teen relationships are built upon mutual respect and a high level of communication. We are NOT advocating permissive or gentle parenting. It's a shift to coaching. This is not easy to achieve but totally possible and 100% worth the effort. It takes time and requires a unique set of skills. At create.transform.BECOME we coach you as parents to become the "coaches" that will help your teen soar in competition and life.
The long answer? Check out Episode 1 of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! There you will get the 19 minute answer!! Enjoy!
Are you coaching parents or teen athletes/performers?
Well, uh kind of both. While the focus of create.transform.BECOME is on coaching parents to empower their teen athlete or performer, we also create custom "family" coaching packages where we work with both parents and teens. If you are interested in learning more about those possibilities for you and your family, please click here to learn more.
Being a parent of a teen athlete is overwhelming, where should I focus my attention? Where do I begin?
We strongly believe that great parenting begins with creating meaningful, powerful connection through skilled communication. We are passionate about helping parents develop communication skills that help them bridge the parent/teen gap. We have created specific thinking tools that help parents to do just that!
The QOC Tool (Question Only Conversation) and The Communication Ring will help you to advance your parent/coach communication skills. They are 100% complimentary and available to you right now. Click here to try one or both today--this is a great place to start--you will not regret that decision!
Why do you require application for a complimentary private consultation?
Great question! The short application helps both of us determine if this session will be a valuable use of our time. It gives us a quick snapshot of your current parent/teen situation, ensuring that we can tailor the session to your needs. It also helps us see if you're open to the coaching process and if investing in coaching could be a good fit for you. This way, we make sure the session is productive, insightful, and truly beneficial. Plus, let’s be honest—if you’re not at least a little open-minded about coaching, it probably wouldn’t be a great experience for either of us! So, if you're ready to gain clarity, challenge your thinking, and explore new possibilities, let’s connect!
What happens during your complimentary, private consultation?
We will focus together on the following:
-Assessing your current parent/teen situation
-Challenging your current thinking through skilled inquiry
-Creating insight and clarity
-Assessing our compatibility and exploring coaching possibilities
And may we also add—it will be fun. Unless, of course, you are not fun—but that is very unlikely, because a "no-fun" person wouldn't be here!
Let's do this! Click here to book your complimentary discovery session—we can't wait to talk to you!
